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FruitTreeFresh | Are your hangout friends your true friends? Have been noticing that it doesn't seem so... |
Padre35 | Just a few, maybe 3, these are the folks who'll hangout and if the weather turns to bad to bike commute I can crash at their place.Most of the other people are just semi Friends |
DeepFreeze | Yeah, I have.... 3 friends that come to mind that are REAL friends. They are generally my hang out friends too. Hahaha The rest I basically just communicate with online and stuff like that. I can count on them - they can count on me. You just have to give people time and don't trust them with too much too soon. Little by little. That way if they betray me, at least it was something small. |
Padre35 | I take that approach as well, only an Aquarian scammed me, knew him for about a year and had no idea what a scummy guy he really is.Only discovered, after he took me for 600 dollars, just what a pos that guy is. Google and Topix would have told me..never again |
charmainec | After much sifting and pruning, yes. ------------------ "DON'T EVER try and destroy someone's life with a LIE.....when yours can be destroyed with the TRUTH...." SY Jacobs |
FruitTreeFresh | Dp |
FruitTreeFresh | How about they coerce you to give up your dreams? And hope you earn lesser than them? |
Swift Freeze | quote: Originally posted by FruitTreeFresh: How about they coerce you to give up your dreams? And hope you earn lesser than them?
I think you know the answer to that question. ------------------ Learn lots. Don't judge. Laugh for no reason. Be nice. Seek Happiness. Follow your dreams. |
PixieJane | Yes. Sounds like your "friends" (actually, frenemies) are people you know from work rather than bonding over shared interests and personal qualities (unless you're as much a frenemy to them as they are to you). |
FruitTreeFresh | The thing is.. I know them since school days.. Whatever then. I care less about what others want. I will charge towards my dream like a bull. |
Ami Anne | You have to look at the Moons of people. If you are what I call a "loyal" Moon, you don't want someone with a "logical" Moon. I am not dissing the second category but they will not see friendship in the same way imo I have about 5 articles on this and I have picked lots of people's brains. I think this is one root problem when relationships go sour. Each person viewed loyalty differently. ------------------ Want To Ask Any Question About Bible Prophecy? Go For it. It is Free, of course. http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
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YoursTrulyAlways | I don't keep friends apart from my ex-girlfriends, whom I adore. I don't "hang out." If I need company, I spend it with my family. Otherwise, I spend time with my cars. If I keep company, they are generally way more successful than I am or more intelligent. That way I look up to them and emulate them and not the other way around. There's no jealousy involved, except on my end. There's less of the possibility of being scammed that way. While I'm all for helping the less fortunate and down trodden, and in fact it is my life mission, I don't endorse lending out money to others for frivolity. You need money for home remodeling or vacation, or speculative investments? Forget about it. |
Padre35 | That is what I thought I was doing YTA.Knew him for a year, he is a local business owner, and it was not charity it was credit in the form of a down payment from him with an agreement to pay it off. Guy skipped out on paying me the rest of the funds As a general rule, when it comes to this, the more someone says "people can change" the more quickly they should be drop kicked out of you social sphere. That is my take away. |
Doux Rêve | quote: Originally posted by FruitTreeFresh: Are your hangout friends your true friends?
I don't hang out with anyone, lmao. Total social outcast. So, no. |
Ellynlvx | Thanks a lot, Doux. I thought we meant so much more, but no? I thought it was you and me and deepfreeze; until the end of time, and now this? Cruel, cruel fate... |
Doux Rêve | We don't actually... hang out... do we? I <3 you, Ellyn. It's you & me for eternit... the next few hours.
I don't like making promises. |
Doux Rêve | dppppppp. |
PixieJane | quote: Originally posted by FruitTreeFresh: The thing is.. I know them since school days..Whatever then. I care less about what others want. I will charge towards my dream like a bull.
And while you're at it drop your frenemies and find some real friends. Which should be much easier chasing your dreams since you're much more likely to find kindred spirits that way.
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FruitTreeFresh | quote: Originally posted by Ami Anne: You have to look at the Moons of people. If you are what I call a "loyal" Moon, you don't want someone with a "logical" moon.
She's Virgo moon. I'm Aquarius moon. I suppose I won't match a male Virgo moon isn't it? Lol |
Ellynlvx | Oh, be still my beating heart... |
Alma Sun | Some of them yes, and others I haven't paid enough attention to, to be sure. But I have noticed a pattern with my "true" friends. We all either have a combo of positive Sun/Sun, Sun/Moon with each other, or their personal planets in my 12th. With the people who have personal planets in my 12th, they seem very protective over me. ------------------ "When I get sad, I stop being sad and be awesome instead." — Barney Stinson |
Padre35 | Just to log in more or less |